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Learn to Meditate - Day 4


Build Your Resilience. Mindfulness of Thoughts.



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An Important Note on Your Wellbeing:


Meditation can be a powerful tool for building resilience and managing stress, and it is a complementary therapy. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice. If you are experiencing symptoms of anxiety, depression, or any other health concern, you should always consult your doctor or a qualified healthcare provider. See our full Medical Disclaimer for more information. By engaging with our content you accept our medical disclaimer and confirm that you are not under treatment for pre-existing conditions, or have permission from your care provider to engage with them. Do not listen to the guided audio meditations when driving or operating heavy machinery, it is not safe to do so.



Resilience is a core skill for success.


It isn't about not feeling stress. It's about how you respond to it. It’s the ability to manage pressure without reacting automatically. This is a skill you can train, and the changes are physical. Your brain is not fixed, it is "plastic," meaning it can be rewired by experience. This is called neuroplasticity.

Research using MRI scanners has shown that regular meditation practice can physically change the brain's structure. One of the most important changes is the weakening of the Amygdala, the brain's "fear and stress" centre. As the Amygdala's influence weakens, your baseline stress level reduces, and your ability to respond calmly increases.

Today's practice is Mindfulness of Thoughts.  Its purpose is to build your resilience by training you to observe stressful or anxious thoughts non-judgmentally, without getting caught up in them. The benefit is that you learn to "decenter" from your thoughts, reducing their reactive power and building the mental muscle to respond calmly to pressure.


(Study Reference: Taren, A. A. (2015). Mindfulness meditation training alters stress-related amygdala resting state functional connectivity: A randomized controlled trial..).)


1. What It Does (The Performance Benefit)

Mindfulness of Thoughts is your mental armour. In a professional environment, resilience isn't about avoiding pressure; it's about recovering from it rapidly.

  • It Creates a "Buffer Zone":  It creates a critical pause between a stimulus (e.g., a critical email from a client) and your response. This split-second gap is where professional composure lives.

  • It Reduces "Emotional Friction":  By learning to observe stressful thoughts without immediately believing them or fighting them, you waste less energy on internal conflict. You become more efficient.

  • It Prevents Burnout:  Burnout often comes not from the work itself, but from our emotional reaction to the work (worry, frustration, catastrophising). This technique unplugs that emotional drain.



2. How & Why It Works (The Mechanics)

This practice targets the Amygdala, the primitive part of the brain responsible for the "fight or flight" response. In high-stress professionals, the Amygdala can become enlarged and over-reactive (like a smoke alarm that goes off when you make toast).

  • Down-Regulating the Alarm:  Research shows that consistent mindfulness practice can physically shrink the Amygdala and weaken its connection to the rest of the brain. You are literally turning down the volume knob on your stress response.

  • The "Observer" Mechanism:  When you are lost in a stressful thought, you are the stress. When you step back and say, "I am noticing a stressful thought," you activate the Pre-frontal Cortex. You shift from experiencing the emotion to observing it. You cannot be overwhelmed by something you are observing from a distance.

  • Neuroplasticity in Action:  "If we engage in an activity over and over again, it changes the physical structure of the brain." By repeatedly practising non-reactivity on the cushion, you wire your brain to be non-reactive in everyday situations.



3. Tips for Your Day 4 Practice

This is often the most challenging day because you are turning towards the noise in your head rather than trying to focus away from it.

  • Thoughts are Data, Not Facts:  This is the golden rule. Just because you think "this project is going to fail," it doesn't make it true. Treat your thoughts like pop-up ads, you can notice them, but you don't always have to click on them.

  • The "Traffic" Metaphor:  Imagine your thoughts are traffic on a busy road. Usually, you are running around in the traffic trying to stop the cars (fighting thoughts) or chasing after them (getting lost in stories). Today, your job is simply to stand on the pavement and watch the cars go by.

  • Don't Force Silence:  You are not trying to empty your mind. If your mind is busy, that’s fine. Your goal is to be the awareness behind the busy-ness, not the busy-ness itself.

  • The "Non-Judgmental" Attitude:  If you see a negative or anxious thought, don't judge yourself for having it. Resisting a thought only feeds it energy. Let it come, let it be, let it go.



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An Important Note on Your Wellbeing

Meditation can be a powerful tool for building resilience and managing stress, and it is a complementary therapy. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice. If you are experiencing symptoms of anxiety, depression, or any other health concern, you should always consult your doctor or a qualified healthcare provider. See our full Medical Disclaimer for more information.

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About the Author

Simon Jones DipBSoM, Meditation Teacher

I'm Si, the Founder and Managing Director of klarosity and an externally accredited Meditation Teacher through the British School of Meditation. I teach meditation to Executives, Leaders, Founders & ambitious Professionals from all walks of life. I've been practicing meditation for over 15 years and experienced first hand the resilience, focus and clarity that a consistent meditation practice can bring you. 

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